Hey there! Ever feel like your child is always getting help at school, but nobody sees them as someone who could help others too? 

It's like they're on the outside looking in, wishing they could be seen as good enough.

That's not what you want! 

Here's the thing: when support only goes one way, it can actually backfire. 

Your child might start feeling down, frustrated, or not wanting to go to school.

But there’s a solution!

In my recent live show, I shared the "Gifted & Giving" Framework to help your child:

🌠  Shine their light! Help them discover their unique strengths and talents.
 ✅ Become a leader! Empower them to take charge in the classroom and beyond.
😍 Feel awesome! Build their confidence by showing them how much they have to offer others.

Here's how the 

"Gifted & Giving" Framework works:

1.Chat with your child!  This is their journey, so their voice matters. 

Talk about their strengths and interests. 

Are there any classroom jobs or school projects they'd love to tackle? (Think beyond wiping tables or selling coffee!)

2.Get creative! Grab a piece of paper and fold it in half. On one side, list your child's strengths and interests. 

On the other side, brainstorm leadership roles that match those strengths!
 Here are some examples of the "Gifted & Giving" Framework

3.Team up with the teachers! Talk with your child's IEP team. See what additional strengths and possible leadership roles they see in your child and add them to the brainstorming list.

4.Let's give back!  Together, decide how your child will use their strengths to help others and contribute to the classroom or school community.

5.Just the right support! We want your child to learn and grow. 

Offer the Goldilocks amount of support (not too much, not too little, just what is needed) as they take on this new leadership role.

Think of it like this: instead of a one-way street where help only flows one direction, you're creating a beautiful two-way street of authentic relationships.

It's all about helping your child be recognized for who they truly are – an amazing person with tons to offer the world!

You can help others take their ableist lens off and have your child be recognized for who they truly are – an amazing person with tons to offer!

Ready to see your child blossom?  
Watch the replay 

(Remind me not to have YouTube pick my thumbnail. Ha ha)

Here's to your child – may they be confident, needed, and be seen for how much they can offer others!